My wife infomed me two weeks ago...I dont love you anymore, we married for wrong reasons, we have nothing in common, we are too different, etc, etc. I think she feels unappreciated by me and I know I havent put her first in our lives for awhile. I love her very much. This is very hard for me as I considered her my best friend, yet she's walking away. She really likes to socialize and go out with her friends and I'm not nearly as social as her. We are 39 and have been married for 13 years. I think she's acting socially like she's 18. She is connecting socially with all her friends right now. She has asked for us to seperate and wants me to consider our living situations. I told her that I wasnt leaving the house and kids and that she should since she is walking away. She said she might move and take the kids with her. She also caught me snooping her email today...not good. So, she is holding firm that her feelings can never change, we have too many differences and she doesnt see how this could improve. We have been to 1 counseling session and she offered to go see a counselor on her own but I'm not so sure she's that serious to try very hard on either option. She has called her plethora of friends to tell them about this, but will not get into a conversation with her parents about sitch. Anyway...I am obsessed with her and going crazy. I know I have overpursued, been emotional, pushed a bit. Not sure how to handle or what to do next. It's not good and I need some hope.
