more positives with H and kids...he's taken initiative to take s3 to bathroom, he started bath for him and asked me to finish and he'd fix s3 bed and do the dishes.. he worked with s9 on his homework this morning. just lots of little things I always wished that he would do before and never would.

I need to remember to keep the excitement in our R too though. I was thinking, there was a lot of "lusting" on my part during the sitch last year with him that I'm not really doing anymore. I don't want to go back to how things were. M does take work.

Me 33 H 34 S9 S3
M 6 yrs (2gether 11 yrs)
EA/PA 1/2006
DB 5/2006
H wants D 6/2006
H wants ME 8/2006
H "said" PA/EA over 8/2006
H erased OW off phone! 2/2007

"It is far better 2 choose humility & change oneself, than 2 wait in vain trying 2 chang someone else."