I know you've said there are no OW. but just be prepared that there is. Depending on what's going on, you really can't believe half of what they say. Even for the OW to email you, and if it's true that she doesn't want to reciprocate, you really don't know. People in As have such an ability of denial or deception.
However, it doesn't matter what he's doing, and I'm not trying to scare you, I just don't want you to feel as though another bomb hit you if you find out otherwise.
Have a good time with the kids... they are so important right now, and they are going to learn how to deal with their own sitches in the future by how you handle yours. You are doing a great job with all of this, so keep it up! You have a lot of great help here.
oh, and don't worry about getting a pro-marriage C, it doesn't mean their going to force the M on him.. if they are good, they know better.
Me 33 H 34 S9 S3 M 6 yrs (2gether 11 yrs) EA/PA 1/2006 DB 5/2006 H wants D 6/2006 H wants ME 8/2006 H "said" PA/EA over 8/2006 H erased OW off phone! 2/2007
"It is far better 2 choose humility & change oneself, than 2 wait in vain trying 2 chang someone else."