Ok I just read this thread.

And I have to tell you that I was confused with the abbreviations.

Ok first thing first.

Stop the dance you have got going on with your Lawyer, he sucks.

Get a new one, you are getting screwed, and you ain't even enjoying it.

2nd of all. I have to say, and I am a straight shooter.

Seems to me like you are putting alot of blame on other things.

Hey, I bet you 100 pesos that your W is nuts. Hey I get it.

But here is a place to heal.

So, if you know what you have done wrong in this marriage, and what you have done maybe wrong in the dad area. I suggest you write all of that down, and start changing those things one by one.

right?

and I'm not getting snarky, I just want you to heal from the inside out, so that you have a chance at being the best papi you can be.

A'ight.

Ok so this is not about getting your W back.

Ok, but I think for the sake of the courts and that guardian and the judge and all that stuff.

Your 180 is going to be, kill them with kindness, and a few ass kiss smooches never hurt anyone, you feel me?

B/c I am getting the impression here, that the courts are thinking of you as the hot blooded one.

So the first thing, that has to be done is to change that opinion.

Then, I suggest you start getting a life.

The real GAL

Get involved more with the church, start being that best Crumbme that you are.

And not for getting anyone Else's reaction but b/c it will bring you to a place of peace.

You know God is good.

The kids are your priority, Document all you do, hey it can't hurt right?

Church picnic, hey, keep a journal. Get some networking going, on. People that are willing to testify on your behalf if in case anything like that needed to happen.

I do think it's time to drop the crack lawyer tho, OK .

peace


Live Simply
Love Generously
Care Deeply
Speak Kindly
Leave the rest to God