Sara, if you can convince my W to think differently by all means. She's hurting and she's just trying to justify what she's feeling. She's trying to not feel guilty about the kids....
M: 31 W: 31 M: 7 T: 8 S:4 D:2 Bomb dropped: too many to count or remember, 12/17/07 last one S on 9/2/07 W sent off D papers 12/31/07. Me trying to live life and hope she returns one day.