Well I am back. Actually did have a fairly decent time with my daughter. We took a tour of a cave. Stayed at a motel, went swimming 3 times. Went to a carnival last night. There were periods of time in there that I completely forgot about what was going on..........

What she took was pretty much what she said she was going to take on her list she gave me 6 weeks ago. No major shocks here. Obviously my computer is still here. Place does seem empty without the cats.......

I appreciate all the people who have wieghed in on my thread here. I appreciate all of the advice, and I will take it all under consideration.....

I am taking alot of things under consideration. The message she is sending me right now does seem pretty clear. One thing that was not taken from here was any of the wedding pictures hung on our bedroom wall..........

Yesterday, while I was driving with my kid, a really nice looking woman walked past my car while i was at a stop sign. My girl sez to me, "Do you think she is hot?" lol I answer her, "well she aint to bad." Then my kid asks, "are you going to get a new girlfriend?" I answered, "well, I dont think I am ready for that" kid sez, "I think you should, so you dont have to be alone, I dont think mom is going to come back to you" sort of an ouch and a smile at the same time....

One of the things from above advice I will strongly consider is to give her some time in her new place.

I am going to start to put my place, (life?) back together now. And spend the rest of the afternoon with my daughter, as I wont see alot of her for the next week.

I do have to drop off daughter at wifes new place in awhile, dont plan on saying much. "Here she is, we had fun!"

G