Your whole situation sounds just like mine! My H is reacting exactly the same. The less available I am the more he hankers round after me... and like your H he is still seeing OW.

My H has been on his best behaviour'trying to impress for about a week now. I am torn between thinking Ow is making him happy so he is being nice to me; and maybe he is testing the water to see if he would get a warm welcome if he wanted to come home. It's so confusing.

Nutty x


Be The Greener Grass.


Me 40
H 42
Son 11
Married 15 years.
Left May 2006 after gambling spree
I had EA August 2006
OW Aug 07 after another gambling spree (she will make me happy - stop me gambling!)
I filed for divorce 9th April 2008.