Have you read Divorce Remedy yet? If not, it can help you a lot. You have not done anything irreparable but if you do not want a divorce don't ask for a divorce. It will not solve your problems in marriage or help you feel better so why give a mixed signal? No one knows when enough is enough. If you ask me, people get a divorce too quickly without even thinking. Reasons such as stubborness, boredom, intimacy, control, communication are not really solved by a divorce. If your goal is to stay together than stay together. If she does not want to be with you right now, why push her away? She needs to feel safe and ready to come back to you. Show your 180s and stay positive. It is extremely difficult for a wife to leave a happy husband. You may also want to read Marriage Builders and Stop Your Divorce. These forums are similar but with a few differences.
Me:38 H:39 MLC M:10 R:23 years D6 S3 Bomb: Easter, 2007 "Every day may not be good, but there's something good in every day."
