Thank you so very much for sharing. REALLY. Reading it makes me so very very sad. They walk away from everything to go to "never never land" and when they do realize whta they have done....they have left so much baggage and pain how could they ever come back up...ever
I think that's about right. My situation was especially dramatic and there are so many substories to it that are frankly beyond belief. It's an incredible amount for him to deal with; I think this is why he feels us being back together is so far out of reach.
Most of us really marry only once. First love endures, even unto our dying day. And we never really divorce.