I took my mom to the doctor today and she told me former W called her! I wonder why?
Regardless what is going on btwn you and your fW, I'm sure fW still cares about your Mom.
I'm sure that the fact that her Mom is also not doing well, she is coming to the realization that there will be a void there and this may very well have her hit rock bottom.
If and when that should happen, I'm sure you will show her the man that you really are whether you choose to stand for your M or not but for the sake of your kids.
The fact that your Mom still welcomes your fW, shows what a wonderful woman your Mom is.
A happy thread is what I'm looking forward to seeing too.
Hugs, ISLH
Me: 49 - S22 & S26 H: 41 - No kids M: 10/00 Bomb New Year's Day 2006 H living w OW 01/07; have baby 12/07 D final 07/07 Thread #9 - Hope Lives On