NoCode, OM being in your home is just soooo awful. And they just don't see how inappropriate it is.

H spent ALL summer going to the park, the pool, the library, grocery shopping, etc with OW and her kids. I knew he was going to these places (I work in the evenings, he has the kids, I was blindly thrilled he was getting out and enjoying the summer), but he would leave out that it was always with OW. I am talking daily events with her and her kids.

Detachment and anger issues. Let me know if you figure it out. ;\)