My H never introduced the kids...but OW told him she would let him raise hers as his own and as Christians!...now this would have looked funny...no disrespect at all intended but she was white, he was white....BUT ALL of her other lovers/H's were black so the children would not have looked like either one of them!

Our children would have never wanted to meet her and I actually had it in my separation/D agreement that our son would never have to...and verbally told my H it would be over my dead body that she would ever be in contact with MY kids...

I just asked him one question when he told me all of this..."How does the perfect woman end up married so many times by age 32?"...he replied "She married loser's."...to which I replied with a serious look, "Ohhhhh."...I think my face said it all...she marries losers and just might create another one to marry!!!

I very much thought MLC was an excuse to get a sporty car and g/f....I had no idea that they really really do go temperorarily insane!!!...I have seen both sides now...H is not the same person he was before...but he is still wayyyyyy better then the MLC man!...so keep the hope...it may not be in vain!

Take care...Lin


Status:

Happy and together