Well, there is a difference between "clever and cute" and "clever and rude". When I mentioned BF, I think of him as being clever and cute. He means well but gets so wrapped up in being clever that it's hard to figure out his point half the time. With Corri (not trying to pick on you Corri but this is my interpretation) she can come off rude in her posts. I think that will obviously turn new people off to her. Just something to be aware. And of course we all want to be listened to and understood, but there are better ways of going about it than being clever.