WAS claim to be so concerned about their OP that they will destroy their own marriages and kids. What makes it even sadder is the fact that by *helping* the OP, they're making things worse for them in the long run.

Your H is being there for this woman because her marriage is a mess, but cheating on her H isn't *helping* her situation one bit!

As for my H, the OW has a terrible X that she's trying to escape, so what does he do? He helps her move into a place up here with her, 150 miles away from her X.

H and OW (former co-worker *friend*) have had a long-distance A for the past few months, and I'm sure they think that living together is the solution. The PA didn't start until after she moved 150 miles away, and he helped her move down there. What a good samaritan, eh?

Is your H one of those Knight in Shining Armor types, too?

So then, they are no longer two but one flesh. Therefore what God has joined together, let not man separate.” - Matthew 19:6