I think you will have some bad days, and I would hold off making any decisions for a bit. You are still shocked. I think it is easier with them out of the house. I didn't initially, but now I think they stand a better chance of fixing themselves, and we certainly can GAL more effectively withouth their brooding presence. MLCer seem like Heathcliff in spades if you know what I mean. Cathy was so right not to marry him.
Re my photos - yes who knows with MLCer? It is just part of a changing set of attitudes towards his old life. I am not holding my breath on this one.
