It is easy much easier to detach from the monster spewers like the puff.
I really have no idea how to do it, when it comes to the "nice" ones.
I know Cinderella man has one, so does butterfly mom.
Some others do too.
I think, and that is just me.
A 180 might just shake things up a bit.
I mean just for your peace. He wants a D. Then go get one see you later.
B/c this whole time ,you have been lovingly detached, very sweet back to him, and I think these "nice" ones just grow to expect that or take advantage of it.
Maybe he needs to feel the consequences of his actions.
He needs to know that you are not always available to him, you need to move one.
Take a breath too, in between all of this
you are going to get hit with a million directions to go.
I pray about the advice I get when I am on my own, and then go with my gut.
Take some time for you.
Don't get caught up in the analysis paralysis.
You will be stuck, and that is not healthy.
Read, meditate about it, then go with you inner voice.
My prayers are with you guys lovey.
Live Simply Love Generously Care Deeply Speak Kindly Leave the rest to God
