cobra, you seem to think you know what happened in the NOP's R better than they do!).
Thank you for reiterating this Lil. Cobra, it is worth exploring (I think) why you operate with such (false) confidence when you simply do not have enough information to go on. I see you doing this all the time. You just did it on Chrome's thread with me. Shouldn't the two people involved know more about the particulars than you? You just don't know the reality. Don't act like you do. And as for being able to change people, you are so off base. But I'm not surprised you believe this because it gives you a sense of power/control, doesn't it? You just don't have that power Cobra and the sooner you realize that I think the better off you will be.
As for HD, only he can figure out what level of dysfunction HE is willing to accept and stop trying to change MrsHD. My H did that (albeit in a f-ed up way) but the result ended up being that same. He made the choice and I followed suit with my own choices. And yes, it could have gone either way for a while. But he in no way controlled my decisions. Why is this so hard for you to understand?
