I have to make this post short and sweet, as I am getting ready to go out.

But I did want to say one thing...

Your Husband is a very confused man right now, and you need to be patient with him.

You can ask him if he wants a D or not, and the answer you will get will depend upon his mood that day, in fact it may change several times in a day.

Let him figure it out, just continue to be loving and kind, maintain your boundaries, but set the boundaries for the right reasons.

There can be no testimony without a test.
I am praying to go through this test and come out the other end with a new and better marriage then before.