Yes eleven years is a long time without any intimacy. That is what most women need to feel....the intimacy. Maybe, I should stop saying what most women need and just speak for myself. I think there is so much resentment that our only way would be to try to start over instead of piecing what we have back together again.
It seems to make a difference in who you talk to these days..... which generation for sure. I wonder if girls are like they use to be when I was younger. I'm not sure. I think that the movies and stuff like that has people believing we are one way when the truth is.....we really aren't that way at all.
Well, my pain meds are kicking in and I have to go to bed....hope I can sleep, but we'll continue this subject when I've gotten my senses about me.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!