Imlin said "I can relate...my H's OW was the perfect wife...perfect woman...let's see she was 32 (14yrs. younger then him) had 4 kids by different men...had been married 2 or 3 times (he wasn't sure)...was very "family oriented"...she lived with her brother (I think that is what he said)...was hard working"
DId your h get togethe with my h's OW's sister? Three kids by three different fathers - a LOT of other relationships - he sin't sure how many!! Oh yes, hard working, but doesn't make much money . . . Has great relationship with her son [in front of whom she has paraded a sring of lovers - she isn't refined about beig off premises], and best of all she asbolutely loves his kids - only one of whom she met, [and this socially, before the affair] and they cordially detested each other.
You are right it is crazy. My h always disliked promiscuous women, and 'messy' familiy situations - Iwas teh more understanding one! Like you I was deeply sceptical of MLC untilit happened to me.
