CDM I was taught to believe that to men sex is just sex It is more than sex for guys that stick around. Maybe it is just sex for MoJo's Fuhk and flee model.
CDM, Back in the dark ages, I was told so many times, women really didn't like sex that much. So when BB seems like she doesn't want to have sex with me, those old mental tapes play and make me feel like I am being a pest.
So next time I think about sex, I get the feeling "do I or don't I make a move?"
I can do all of the things Sandi2 suggests, but BB and other W think it is just to get into her pants. I can do the love-e-dove-e for 3 days as Sandi suggested. To BB it doesn't increase her desire. Other women are that way.
Years ago Corri outlined the romance a guy does not equal romance to some LD woman. It equals "he wants in my pants."
Sandi has the right idea for some situations. Other situations it works some times.
