I can relate...my H's OW was the perfect wife...perfect woman...let's see she was 32 (14yrs. younger then him) had 4 kids by different men...had been married 2 or 3 times (he wasn't sure)...was very "family oriented"...she lived with her brother (I think that is what he said)...was hard working (had $400 gas bill and $600 cable bill he paid for her so she wouldn't be cut off??? Those are some BIG bills for basic stuff)...
He was ready to marry her...needless to say he did come to his senses...it took time and her getting bored and moving on....but after about 18 months he was moving back to the area and soon we were reconnecting...
Your H still wants contact with you...mine didn't when he was gone...I do see a lot of positives...MLC is just totally insane...I never believed in it before I watched first hand as my H sunk to level that I never imagined and to someone that he himself would have dispised...sad...but true..
H has been home for about a year and half now...things are going much better...I think we are gonna make it...he says he loves me again...28th anniversary is coming up...we missed our 25th! and our 26th...27th he said "I love you"....so we will see what 28 holds for us...
