Well, I have to say in my defense, I think it went a lot deeper than I just didn't want to have sex and then all of a sudden when my H threatened to divorce me, I all of a sudden was "hot to trot." Yes, that happened, but it goes a lot deeper than that. It's not just about sex as we all know. I honestly did not ever realize that sex = intimacy and that men are looking for that as well. I think deep down, along w/ other things, I was taught to believe that to men sex is just sex and it took obviously a huge wake up call to finally look at the layers of intimacy, sex, marriage, relationships, etc.
Me: 38 H: 35 S4, S5, S10 Bomb 01/07 Wanted D - nothing would change his mind Numerous A's prior to D bomb; EA prior/during D bomb Piecing 04/07 Deployed for a year 05/07 Still Piecing 2010 M 11 yrs 05/10
