To ML or not to ML -- that is the question!

[reecegirl]

I have to agree with Cades and say no s*x til he decides it is over and he is committed to you...I have a hard time ML with my H sometimes and he has broken it off with OW completely and wants to work on our R. I still have moments that I feel betrayed and hurt when we ML because I think it is only sex to him, since he was able to do that with the OW. He wooed her and convinced her he had feelings for her and wanted to be with her....why should I let him have it all...what about me??? You and I both deserve to have a H that is committed to us and only to us. You do not need to beat yourself up over what has already happened, but do not let him use words to convince you to have s*x make him show you he truly does love and miss you...then move on to the ML. You have to be the one to ultimatly decide what you need or want to do...this is just my point of view.