PW, aren't you afraid that you'll catch and STD? according to "not just friends" 60% and plus of cheating Hs dont' use protection. Have you thought of that?
I did a 180 for the past year and was always available and always wanted to ML with him. It did't matter, his unhappiness and void put him in a position such as that when op contact him he started the PA again, didn't matter that i wanted him at home.
It's prob just hurting you while he is having a blast. You need to make your own desicions, but if i were you I wouldn't touch him w/a 10 ft pole.
Be not afraid...I will repay you for the years the locusts have eaten Joel2
30something 2kids survivor of S, MLC, A, D I have peace in my heart, at last.