Originally Posted By: husband
Originally Posted By: Yoyowife
Originally Posted By: prayingwife247

Are the WAW more likely to return if their H's ML?


That is an interesting question. Honestly, I have seen on here many time cake-eating WAH,(mine was one of them), but I have never seen where the WAW wants to ML with both H and OM.

Men out there can you answer this question?


The thought did cross my mind. I can't really anser it becasue it has not happened and as we all know we can't say what we would do until it happens. But....... Yes I have thought about letting My W see the Other man if she would come back to me.

Sad isn't it
Not sad. Realistic. We know we cannot control anyone else. The biggest indicator of successful R after infidelity is the WS sympathy to the LBS temporary insanity from the sitch. Marriage Builders. An affair needs to die a natural death. No contact is ideal but look how hard it is for us to Go Dark completely. Ironically, a six month affair is as hard to give up as a10 year marriage. Not fair.


Me:38 H:39 MLC
M:10 R:23 years
D6 S3
Bomb: Easter, 2007
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