Thanks for the male perspective -- I MUST *try* to look at it from H's point of view.

I feel so bad that your wife cheated on you. Many times in my marriage I wanted to walk away, too. But every time I prayed about it, God would yank me back to my senses. I don't know why God would allow my H to leave me, but I definitely feel that He wants me to fight for my marriage -- even if all I can do is pray about it.

I'm guessing that the issue of ML w/separated spouse is different if the W is involved w/OP. I'm just guessing because male/female perspectives on s*x are so different. Male = physical, female = love. Are the WAW more likely to return if their H's ML?