To ML or not to ML -- that is the question!

[mkultra]

I thought is was recommended to continue ML, not to continue ML if the WS is ML with OP. Dr. Kreidman of Light Your Fire says to say no to sharing a partner. You are competing with the OP and that means showing WS how much happier WS would be in the marriage by doing other things. I do not think it is ever safe to be permiscuous and knowingly having multiple partners is being permiscuous and that is dangerous to all involved. My 2 cents but I am celibate over here. Sad face.