To ML or not to ML -- that is the question!

[RedHeadWife]

I have to add my 2 cents in here. I would say ABSOLUTELY NOT UNTIL SHE IS G - O - N - E. He's cake eating if he's living w/ and having S w/ her and also having S w/ you. He then has no reason whatsoever to decide one way or the other -- stay w/ her or come back and work out your M.

Don't regret that it happened that one time, however, I would say get a chastity belt (and I'm saying that lightly:) until he decides he wants to work on the M and prove it that he loves YOU and misses YOU. When he says that is what he wants, there needs to be no contact w/ OW. I would say no sex until he has agreed to those terms.