I know you and he are confused, but Goodness almighty am I jealous! Do the kids see this affection? How have they reacted to it? Our kids are constantly asking us to kiss and hug and dance and hold hands. Do you know how awkward and devastating it is to explain to a child that Mommy and Daddy do not love each other that way. It is like teaching a child that water is not wet. Show love and be loved. Let him date you and fall back into love. He wants you at the beach. Just don't share him. Help him get over his affair. There is no pride in that but I guess we need humility to save our marriage. You are now on the same team, the family, the marriage, the future. If your Northeren Star is growing old with this person than some day these past few months will be worth it for a life time of love.
Me:38 H:39 MLC M:10 R:23 years D6 S3 Bomb: Easter, 2007 "Every day may not be good, but there's something good in every day."