What is reasonable and what is not?

[Kim07]

SO2,,,When will she go away?? When you tell her she can have him! Seriously,,IMO, I would NOT have any intimate contact w/XH whatsoever-He won't miss it until its' gone! I also would be afraid of him not being honest w/either one of you and end up giving you & the baby some sort of disease,,sorry to be so blunt.

Believe it or not you're now in the drivers' seat,,do not feed into his ego or his stories, your gut is the best indicator!

This time will be very hard for you b/c you are carrying XH's baby and it feels so right when your together,,BUT,,hes' counting on those feelings from you by what he tells you whether truthful or not. Now, some have to go thru this pain in order to learn but I don't want to see you go thru it being pregnant and alone.

He sounds like hes' definately a cake eater,,don't give him that chance!

You know that if the pics are up theres' still something there w/the OW b/c once she walked in his door & saw them down she would be telling him WTF!! So,,,you know its' not over you're just confirming that fact.

For her to keep dating him while you come up pregnant is beyond me!! I'm sorry for being rude,,but,,shes' just plain stupid or ignorant! Who knows,,it might be hes' telling you that he told her all this stuff but i'm willing to bet that she doesn't have a clue!! I bet once you start showing, if not already, the poops' gonna hit the fan-at that moment in time, do not give into him if she kicks him to the curb or you will look like the needy one,,,just what I would do in your sitch-don't take it to the bank on my account.

Remember,,,IN THE END THE ONE W/THE COOL HEAD WINS! THE ONE WHOSE MORE 'PLEASANTLY ALOOF' IN THIS SITCH WINS,,THE HARD PART WILL BE KEEPING IT UP TIL THE END OF YOUR PREGNANCY!

JUST MAKE YOUR BOUNDRIES AND KEEP THEM,,SOUNDS LIKE THATS' WHAT THIS GUY NEEDS AND HES' NOT GETTING IT FROM OW!

Good Luck Sweety,
Kim