As I said in my other post, I'm afraid to tell him *Don't touch me until she's completely out of your life.*
Now that I've caved once, I'm sure he'll talk me into caving again. I'm trying to 180 -- keep things upbeat around him, not talk about R, work on GAL, and act like it's no big deal. It IS a big deal, though.
The DR book says it's okay to ML, but I really want to know the percentage of couples who ML while separated/involved w/OP and got back together vs. couples who got back together because they didn't ML.
After 14 years of great s*x, it's hard to resist. After all, we're still married.
I'm almost tempted to tell the OW, but I'm sure it will backfire.
Of course, it wouldn't be the first time I did something stupid like this. It's only been about a month, and I feel like I've done everything wrong.
I'm so discouraged that I feel like walking away, and letting him have his *happy* new life. I'm SO tempted to cut myself out of his life completely, because it hurts so much.
