Today ExH and I and my older daughter went to his daughter's (my stepdaughter)soccer game. He asked us to go. We all went and then about the 3rd quarter I noticed OW across the field watching this game too! I couldn't believe my eyes. She was talking to people but I can tell she was checking out the situation. He was standing right next to me most of the game. I am assuming that if he asked us to go he wouldn't have asked her and she just showed up. Gutsy woman. She had no kids playing and was watching his daughter play. I don't think he saw her right away. After the game he and my daughter took off and I waited for my stepdaughter to get done. They walked off and I watched OW. She watched them the whole time. When stepdaughter and I left she watched us go as well. She is out of her mind.
I didn't say a word to ExH as I figured he didn't ask her and he was uncomfortable. He even gave me a kiss when he left that hopefully she saw.
I didn't overreact and jump ExH about it. That I was proud of.
When will she just go away?
Me: 46 FWS: 36 Married and Divorced 4/07, Pregnant 7/07,False R 7/07 Baby Girl born 3/08 Kicked him out because OW: 7/08 5/10 He realized what he had and lost. Moved home! REMARRIED 3/14/11!!