Thanks Puddle. I seem to be able to move very quickly out of the "bad" moments in my mini meltdowns and anything to do w/ W like last night. Prior to this, I would dwell which sucked cuz it would ruin the whole day / evening. No fun to be around eh?
Me too! Since our R has gone south, I have become a much calmer and patient person, especially w/the kids. I wish someone would have come over and given me a good swift kick to get me to change years earlier. I hope H is noticing, but I doubt it.