Somehow that helps the anxiety/panic attacks become less frequent and I find the obsession to know lessens as well. I am trying to keep concentrating more on myself.
Unbelievably selfish of me to say that I'm writing this to help me really. Hope it helps you as well.
That does help, thanks. And there's nothing selfish about what you said. You want to save your marriage just like I want to save mine. You do what you have to do to make that happen.