Personally I would have thought that if you make it available whenever he wants it then where is the incentive to come home? If he can cake eat he probably will.
I agree! But the fact that he said ILY (he hasn't done that in a while), *I really miss you,* etc. makes me think he's still open to coming back. He's still with the OW, though.
I'm too scared to say, *Don't touch me until she's completely out of your life.*
If OW finds out about this, maybe she'll leave him. On the other hand, it might just drive them closer together!