Personally I would have thought that if you make it available whenever he wants it then where is the incentive to come home? If he can cake eat he probably will. However to occasionally remind him of what he's missing probably wouldn't hurt - just as long as you don't get hurt by that or let it get your hopes up.

saffie

Saffie
me 46
H 46
M in 1986
D20,D18,S16,D13
H's A 01/05 to 07/06
H recommitted to M 07/06
renewed vows 09/06
Going from strength to strength