Thanks so much for the advice. I thought leaving him alone was the right way to go, but needed some reassurance.
It's really not so difficult not calling. I'm not in a mood to be his friend right now. In fact I'm hoping he's feeling lonely and guilty, but I'm not counting on it.
Spent the day journaling, cleaning up, relaxing, took some things to Salvation Army. Strangely pleasant day for the most part, given the circumstances.
I was so pleased with myself. Took my Mini to get emissions test done first thing this morning. But I've had constant problem with the "Service Engine Soon" light - it's some emissions thing that's minor but can't find problem. Anyway I have my own little code reader to clear the error and turn off light, which I did right before test so I wouldn't fail. It usually stays off for a couple of weeks. Came back on shortly after I left the emissions station. Smiled all the way home.
In4ride Me 50, H 55, M 17 yrs 1st Bomb Drop 12/7/03 Separated mostly in house Come back together/H breaks back 9/04 Piecing, surgeries, recovery, H retires 2nd Bomb Drop 9/3/07 H moves out 20 min later