I have not read 'Silent Sons', but for all I know H has - his C is always giving him books to read, but I don't know if they help him at all.

OK - I need some feedback on this one. While H was packing, he stated "I need you to support me on this, can you do that?" I just answered yes, without realing knowing what he was asking for. I was still just in shock.

What do any of you think that his expectations are with that line? Should I be staying dark? For all I know he thinks I'm being an angry b**ch because I haven't contacted him. I think I'm supporting his need to be alone.

"If you speak and your MLC H doesn't hear you, are you still wrong?


In4ride
Me 50, H 55, M 17 yrs
1st Bomb Drop 12/7/03
Separated mostly in house
Come back together/H breaks back 9/04
Piecing, surgeries, recovery, H retires
2nd Bomb Drop 9/3/07 H moves out 20 min later