Thank you for your advice. Yes, the romantic gestures and special trips have all been part of the package. Maybe some people don't know what they have until they loose it or start to loose it. I guess I'm just at a different place than my W. Of course due to the starvation. Let me also add that for me the sex is vital but also affection is as equally important. I guess thats how us Latin men are wired, at least for this one.
