So what do you think, should I file for D before the big 'either we work on it or we split' talk? Filing before would certainly have shock value, but seems somewhat like hanging the prisoner before sentence is passed, doesn't it? (Probably) filing after seems more decent... but she hasn't been the ideal W for a while either... Filing is cheap in Sweden, 50$ or so, with no lawyers needed, and it is revocable during the think it over period, probably 9 months (so the kids can finish school), so no bridge burning there, just showing I am serious. The majority vote will win - thanks - Luke
M58, xW54 S22, D18 M 1984, D 2016 Living a new life.
