Hi Jeff.

I too have found the 'going dark' very effective.

This is a great place to get some support and hints on how to cope.

Do you and your wife have any children?

Nutty x


Be The Greener Grass.


Me 40
H 42
Son 11
Married 15 years.
Left May 2006 after gambling spree
I had EA August 2006
OW Aug 07 after another gambling spree (she will make me happy - stop me gambling!)
I filed for divorce 9th April 2008.