I am really at the beginning of this process (Aug 13) and I am freaking out today.... need some sort of something from H. So I totally understand where you are coming from wanting to have a R talk after 5 months. 5 months! I would be a basket case, I'm sure.
For everyone advising otherwise, can you share how you deal with your uncertainties without having some sort of communication as to where things stand? I don't know about NDDT, but that would help me greatly.
ME: 40 DH: 41 D: 19 D: 16
Married 11+ years, 2nd marriage for both Still together and working on it
