May I ask why you expect the husbands to act UNCONDITIONALLY to help the women meet his needs CONDITONALLY? Why do you not expect the women to act UNCONDITIONALLY?
do you realize you were telling her that she did not measure up and that it was HER responsibility to meet those needs? Do you not relalize that being LD is the absolute best way for a woman to tell her husband that he does not measure up. So it is ok for her to reject him but not vice versa?
