I have been told that if a man is taking blood pressure meds that he usually can't get it up. That.....combined with the low testrosterone......my God, no wonder he's not having sex! He needs to get his butt to the doctor. Now having said all that...let me quickly add this, sweetie......I am married to the same kind of man! (((many hugs for you!)))
He was 24 going on 54 when we got married, but I was so blind that I couldn't see it. He was 4 years older than me and when you are 18 that makes a big difference. He "maturity" and his Gary Cooper (know who he was?) personality was a "turn-on" to me. However, his mother killed most of that for me over the years. She is dead now, but so is our marriage! Anyway, I know how you feel and I am older than you and have been married a long time with a lot of no sexual activity. I hate going to the doctor and having to fill out those papers when it ask if you are "sexually active" b/c I've been married for almost 42 years and have not had sex in eleven years. I don't know that I can help a single person by giving advice, but sweetie I have big shoulders and will listen anytime you want to talk. Sounds like our guys may be two peas in a pod.
Sandi
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
