Your planned talk is up to you. But, I think it will be a mistake. She will talk to you if and when she is ready. Anything you do prior to that is going to push her away. You are the one wanting the talk. You want it to hopefully clarify where you stand with her and for you to tell her where she stands with you. There has been not R talk since may, yet she is still moving. That should tell you where she stands right there. You think her being moved out for a mere two weeks is going to change how she feels. Not likely. Her new space is only going to start to allow her think about herself and her wants and desires for the future. Two weeks after she moves out, she will only have begun to start her thought process. Maybe two months from now, she will have a better idea of where she stands.
I don't know how many times I have told myself and others have told themselves, "I am going to have this conversation with no anger, no resentment, no yelling etc. just a calm productive talk." Hah, it never happens, especially when both parties are not ready for the conversation. You intentions are honorable, but not very realistic.
My .02. Do not have the talk no matter how much YOU need it or how effective or productive YOU think it will be. She will talk when she is ready and wants to, not before then.
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