Now I've done it

[nephartiti]

He's having an affair with another teacher. The school is year round and has 3 tracks. He's on vacation. She's not. He hangs around town everyday waiting for her, apparantly.

Yes, I believe he is retaliating. He brings up the arrest constantly. He claims he did not mean to hit me. In fact, his story goes that he was trying to put his mid fingure in my face. I came at him and ran into his hand. He did flip me off, w/ his left hand. He punched me w/ his right. This was on 8/9. I still have a bump and a scar on my lower lip. He says that if he would have been convicted, his life would have been ruined-job, citizenship, etc. How dare I do that to him.

My SIL says I have battered wife syndrome, but he was never abusive until recently. I swear I don't know this man in my husband's body. His screen name is Altruist, he's vegan, he won't even kill bugs in the house (takes them outside). Yet, now he hits, shoves, chokes, and swears.

As for the school, his OW is apparently afraid of me. He must portray me as a lunatic. He is verrry protective of her. I think that is the main reason he has stuck to his lie that there is no OW despite the obviousness. He is protecting her. How altruistic.