Hey mamma.

I like you did not have the "happiest marriage"

And when Puff left last Feb of 06, that was not the first time he left.

I just thought that this is the way my "marriage" would be.

So I had a hard time accepting the fact that Puff was in MLC.

I fugured he was just a WAS.

And sometimes I still do.

I mean don't get me wrong, he was wonderful in many ways, but very self absorbed, selfish, mentally abusive.

I thought that all marriages were like that, and as long as he didn't hit me, or was out with his friends at all hours we were fine.

I know different now.

I know men out there, that are not mentally abusive, and are good men, and are wondeful fathers, and are not cheaters.

So I will no longer "settle"

Thank you for always being so candid.

YOu are a wonderful success story.

Live Simply
Love Generously
Care Deeply
Speak Kindly
Leave the rest to God