also something to think about, re: dating...he may just use it against you (she is doing it, too!) or he may finally release his guilt, whatever guilt he has, and it may help him move on even easier. it is a dicey game to play.
I agree. I just don't have the cojones to date but I can visualize myself with another person and that has never happened before. I only had eyes for my H, now I can see a much healthier person but the statistics against a second marriage are bad and I would not want to be disappointed by yet another hombre. I guess it is just for fun and Stopping My Divorce.
Me:38 H:39 MLC M:10 R:23 years D6 S3 Bomb: Easter, 2007 "Every day may not be good, but there's something good in every day."
