Hi, I have read your threads, and been thinking about them. My h's MLC appears to consist in a long replay stage during which time he has made three attempts to come back.

Now, if he had sustained a n injusry after an one of those attempts, and stayed, I might have thought the crisis was over, because each attempt to return was preceded by touch and goes. The last time heleft he was much more calm andbusiness like about it.

I don't know whether he will want to make another attempt at reconcilation - he is showing some signs of reconnection, so I am still work in progress, moving forward and onwards with my life.

My point is that it seems, from postings here, that Replay often takes more than a year to work through, and may involve a series of partial reconciliations.

There is a post somewhere in the MLC resources that strongly suggests that if they come back before working through the whole thing they may run again later.

It is exhausting, isn't it, and it all feels so dramatic and unnecessary!! There is enough bad stuff in teh world without manufacturing things.